Answer (1 of 11): NOT TOO QUICKLY! Marriage is a big decision and since you both are married, you have not only yours, but even your partner's responsibility upon you now! You can't ditch them for no reason. What's your wife's fault? That she married a man like. Answer (1 of 11): NOT TOO QUICKLY! Marriage is a big decision and since you both are married, you have not only yours, but even your partner's responsibility upon you now! You can't ditch them for no reason. What's your wife's fault? That she married a man like. Married men know the power of a charm offensive. So if a married man lights up in a woman’s presence and points those lights at her, it’s undeniably one of the signs of a married man in love with another woman. 2. He plays like it’s a middle school. You know what that means-.